Welcome Kensleigh

Dear Kensleigh,

It occurred to me today you have just passed through your first month.

Normally, I would write a quick little poem about how excited I am with your arrival, but  no not for you. You seem to require a letter - a more formal state of affairs. It makes me wonder about what destiny lies within that tiny body. It must be one of great deeds!

On occassion I have had the opportunity to meet your dad. I don't know him well, but what I do he seems to be a good natured fellow who is gentle and fun. It seems at first glance you look a lot like him. No worries about that, he is handsome.

Your mother on the other hand, as she will tell you we know each others secrets. Well maybe not all of them, but a few. Your mum is quite determined. She does things in her own time and in her own way.  She is smart, so listen to her, even if you don't you want to. I have a feeling you are already a lot like her. She is funny and enthusiastic about life. Enjoy the ride!

It is a shame really that you were unable to see your mother when she was carrying you. I don't know if I have seen her more beautiful or more afraid - she tried to hide it - but like I said we know a few of each other secrets!

Well, Kensleigh what can I tell you to expect from your life?

• You will have your heart broken and you will break more hearts than you will ever know.
• You will survive, enough though you think your life is over as you know it.
• Busty has good advise that I am going to borrow from her: invest in experiences, not stuff.
• Always use your imagination, it is the key to innovation.
• Know your opinions, back yourself up, and Kensleigh always keep an ace.
• Be tolerant of others, everyone has value.
• Learn always.
• Know your own voice.
• You will hear this a lot and it is true: Live in the moment, draw upon the past as you need it but don't hold on to it - you can't change it, keep focused on what you would like to experience - but spend time exploring your options first but not too much otherwise you will just be wishing your life a way.
• Have fun, watch for deer, and keep your nose clean.
• And, the only person who will stay with you your entire life is yourself, so be kind to Kensleigh.

If you run in to problems eat chocolate, watch a movie that makes you laugh, sing, go to the park and walk barefoot in the grass.

May your life be full of blessings and welcome Miss Kensleigh it is going to be fun watching you grow.

Your friend,
Songbird